OK so. My son never took a bobo (pacifier) and it was a breeze getting him off the bottle. But my princess has been off her bottle since maybe 8 months but is addicted to her bobo (pacifier). she is 1 year old (21 months for those who like to use the month labels). She is still on it. I want to take her off but I also don't want to hear her whine. I need some suggestions is she still in the OK age to have her bobo. is she too old. Some ppl tell me take it away some say leave her the HELL alone. I have mixed emotions on each opinion. Mom's what do you think.
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OK so I know I have neglected my duties and have not made a ForTheLoveOfMommy post. But truth be told I didn't even know where my front started and my back ended. Where do.i began... My son turned 6 on Thursday. I still can't believe it. how fast time flies. he had an amazing birthday followed by an even more amazing time at the skating rink for his cousin's party. I truly received one of my biggest blessing besides my kids and fiancé (I will officially be in my own place very soon).
Mommies I was so busy I did not even give you Hot Mama's my looks of the week. But I am back on track I hope. I am a mommy. So you guys know how that goes. Right now Im asking God for all the patience I can get. So my sons birthday weekend just pastwd and he had a wonderful time because I gave him everything he asked for. But the problem is before his birthday he brought a bad note from his teacher. But we gave him the benefit of the doubt and said it's because of the excitement of his birthday. But today I go through his book bag and find another note with the same issue. I dont like whooping my kids but he is really trying my patience. So no tablet, no tv, no candy, and no grandma house until I feel he has learned his lesson. School and Bed is all he is going to know for the next few weeks.
Kia so when was the last time you really felt Sexy?
When coming into work today a parent (female) asked how do I find the time to get up, get my son ready and still walk out the door looking extra cute. All I could do was smile. Like honestly, getting dressed and cute is necessity. No I'm not conceited, I am just confident especially being a mommy of 2 and one being a girl, she need to know that everyday is a run way show and she's the main attraction. It's been plenty of times where my significant other wanted to know why I have to look good just to go to the store, or to drop Jamari off at school or shot to even walk to mail Box. Ladies even it's just splash of glitter here and a dash of shine there. DO it. Feel sexy. Not for anyone other than yourself. If your single and looking, believe your easier to look past with no effort, if your not single just know he got when you were looking cute. I'm just being honest. Especially being a mom, we have a tendency to just let go of ourselves and HONEY that is a NO NO!!!! As a mom we go through our days doing the most. Not because we want to but because we have to. I honestly must give it up to the single mommies who do this and more on a regular day to day basis. I am 28, 2 loving kids and a s/o that I love oooh so much. Anyone that knows me (us) knows he works out of town and has been gone since October of last year. This has truly taking its toll on me. Not our relationship. The only reason for that is because we have God first. But just going about my day. Taking Jamari to school then going to work. Coming home going to school myself and then helping Jamari with his homework and w/e comes into play as a parent. I honestly want to pull my hair out at times. I don't have my backbone here to pick up my slack. Yes I can admit I slack off at times. I'm not perfect. Maybe in the eyes of my little ones because the have yet to know any better.
There's so much where I go wrong and wish there was a little red button that said do over that I can push. Everyday. Moral, I love being a mom. But I'm never to good at being one to not need or ask for help. I may be a bit wiser than a first time mommy. But then there's that mommy who has even more wisdom than me a mommy of 2 because she's a mommy of 5. Please never feel you can't ask for help. That just goes to show how strong you are. You'll never know the answer to a question you never asked. good night mommies. smooches, Jasmine good morning hot mamas,
i knew they said it was going to be cold but gooooood damn! lol i woke up this morning and went to get the kids dressed for school and i tell you this, i didnt make it. I made it to my room door and turned back into bed..the floor felt like ice and the air felt like rapid winds. a little over dramatic?! hell yes! but this is what it felt like. instead of sending the kids into this weather i let em sleep in, just call it a snow day like the ones thwy have in other states that do have snow..lol but on the sad side i still had to get up take a hot shower and go to school. times like this i miss my online schooling but as i always say a closed mouth dont get fed! gotta make something happen in order to live life the way i plan. hope everyone is bundled up while out at work or on their way to school, enjoy your day mommys.!! Patricia Good morning my babies. I sitting here barely keeping my eyes open watching zoey with my sicky pooh. I've been up all day yesterday and didn't get to bed till 1:30am this morning because I insisted on finishing my hair not mentioning getting up every 4 hours to check my daughter temperature, administering medication and fluids. So when the alarm this a.m went off I wanted to scream. I feel like I haven't slept yet. So am I complaining?.... Nah hh well maybe a little because I'm sleepyyyyy😩😩😩😩 but I'm a mother and my job is never done. The rain isn't making it any better. I'm going to sneak a nap in today if it kills me. Lol. I hope you ladies stay dry and happy. Good day Xoxo Dana Gm mommies. Say a prayer for my baby girl and I. She's been fighting a fever since last night of 103.0 and now this morning 104.2. She can't seem to break it and is screaming that she's freezing. It breaks me into a million pieces that I can't take it away and take it for her. Feeling helpless and angry. mommies please tell me. When did the rule nap times deminish when they get a certain age. Become official. I mean just Take a NAAAPPPPP... just give me 30min of quiet time. Yes I said 30min. I don't care if my daughter is 1 and my prince is 5 going on 6 in 2 weeks. Just give mommy a break. (is it wrong to just need a break).. she's giving me the EVIL I'm not going to sleep EYES....
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